Decision-Making for ADHD

Here's a list of resources on decision-making and execution for individuals with ADHD.

These resources provide a variety of strategies, tools, and insights to help you improve your decision-making and execution skills.

Articles

  1. A 5-Step Framework for Overcoming Obstacles and Moving Forward by George Sudarkoff

Books

  1. "Decisive: How to Make Better Choices in Life and Work" by Chip Heath and Dan Heath
  2. "The ADHD Advantage: What You Thought Was a Diagnosis May Be Your Greatest Strength" by Dale Archer
  3. "Faster Than Normal: Turbocharge Your Focus, Productivity, and Success with the Secrets of the ADHD Brain" by Peter Shankman
  4. "The Disorganized Mind: Coaching Your ADHD Brain to Take Control of Your Time, Tasks, and Talents" by Nancy A. Ratey
  5. "Your Brain at Work: Strategies for Overcoming Distraction, Regaining Focus, and Working Smarter All Day Long" by David Rock

Anxiety, Trauma, and PTSD

First of all, what is trauma?

Trauma is a frightening experience that's too overwhelming to process.

Trauma often happens in childhood. Uncovering and acknowledging the childhood experiences that induced trauma is often how we heal as adults.

Please note that we can't change the past. Trauma treatment is not about pretending the traumatic event didn't happen or imagining it happened differently.

Caution

Doing any trauma work could be triggering. It could lead to dissociation and intense feelings. It's best done with a licensed professional who could help you stay regulated and safe during the process.

But not processing trauma can also lead to triggering, dissociation, and more. And not everybody can access mental health services.

If you choose to continue reprocessing trauma on your own, here's what you can do to help ground yourself.

Preparation

Reprocessing trauma will have time. Don't rush. Give yourself plenty of time and be gentle with yourself.

Before you start, perform some grounding exercises:

•  Do a grounding exercise, such as deep slow breathing. Tune into your surroundings, listen to the sounds in the room, pay attention to the lights and colors, notice the objects around you—what's their texture like, and sensations in your body—the weight of your body on the chair you're sitting on, the temperature of the air, how it feels on your skin, and so on.

•  Get physically comfortable. Find a comfortable place to sit. Make yourself a cut of hot cocoa. Turn on soft lighting and perhaps some soothing music.

•  Use paper to write, don't rush, give yourself time to process what you're writing.

The prompts

These prompts are adapted from Dr. Margaret Wehrenberg's 10 Best Treatments for Anxiety:

1.  What do you feel in your body?

2.  What is the earliest age you remember feeling these sensations?

3.  Can you create an image of yourself feeling these sensations?

4.  Who else might have been there?

5.  Is the current situation in any way similar?

6.  Are these old feelings accurate for the current sitaion?

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